Oh Amber. We here at JB don’t delete comments if they are a wee bit criticising. It was stuck in moderation. Trust me, JB is all woman. She is proud of the wonderful successful men and women in her life. I can’t see where you are getting the toxic angle from though? Toxic? How is making bread bowls, looking after a family and being completely polemic about certain issues, toxic? I don’t see the hate you speak of…all the best PPP
If you cannot see the hatred all around her blog you might be a bit blind. You can enjoy being at home and making bread bowls without being so full of intolerance and hatred. Her views on rape and other woman are astonishingly sexist. I’m frankly surprised she is a woman, if you are not lying, because that means she types an awful lot like a certain author at MRA. You can be country and not be cruel. You can live and let live. Frankly, she’s not a good Christian at all.
Oh and stuck in moderation is still censoring it. 🙂
Amber, regarding the post that is getting you upset. JB isn’t stating that brutal and violent rape by strangers does not exist.
She is not talking about women who get criminally raped. Those violent crimes are horrendous. What JB is talking about is common sense
and personal responsibility. JB is talking about women not looking out for themselves and each other. That getting wasted, and getting into bed with someone and calling rape the next day is wrong. For all parties involved. I personally know a girl who did this. Calling RAPE onto a man can ruin their lives.
If you’ve not noticed, JUDGY BITCH is not one of those Live and Let live blogs.
A comment being in moderation because one of us is away from the computer may be censoring, but you claimed that we had deleted it because you may have hurt our feelings. WAAAH. It’s probably best to stay away from headlines that are possibly offensive to you. all the best PPP
I saw the title and thought ‘haters’? This blog seems small enough it hasnt attracted haters yet…then in only 7 comments I see hate. Hahahaha Maybe I should go to some feminist blogs and stir up trouble…
I love how people think they’re in a position to judge some one as being a good “Christian/Muslim/Jew/XYZ.” Isn’t one of the fundamental ideas of all Abrahamic religions that only the Almighty can judge your righteousness or wickedness? Not
It’s almost as funny as the rape issue. Rape is a barbaric act of violence. Feeling guilty (EMBARRASSED) about drunken sex is not rape. Allowing people to just throw that out, or any claims of abuse in order to work a system or cover their shitty judgement is not being a good Christian. (Oh woops.)
Oh. Amber’s one of those blessed foolish women who thinks that not being an uber-feminist means you “support rape culture.” I’ve had a few of those hit my blog, too.
Not much to do with them, they’re basically speaking cant rather than English, and are immune to argument.
I still love you, Judgy Bitch!…..clearly what those boys did was wrong, the girl was ignorant and young. They were all wasted….but five years in prison for fingering a drunk girl who can’t even remember? After she gave someone a hand job? She is severely traumatized by this? There is no comparison between that, and going to prison and being labeled a sex offender for life…
I recall a graduation party,….tripping, stoned and drunken revellers back in the day….
A woman said she liked me alot, stayed with me alone when others left, took off all her clothes…We got into bed naked…..we were gong at it, she passed out………I wanted to go out with her, bu later learnedt she had a boyfriend….next day was sort of weird, she wouldn’t even acknowledge me at all….with the boyfriend….
It kind of hurt my feeling a bit at the time, I liked her alot…later I wondered if this was rape, I guess I just assumed she took off all her clothes and started to have sex with me was ‘consent’…we were equally wasted, I passed out later…….am I a rapist?
That picture in ghe beginning of this blog reminds me of my most recent girlfriend, attitude too! …er, could you please turn towards me more, and put your arm down when flipping me off? Thanks!
I believe her assumption was that since you are obviously an opponent of what we may call garden variety left-wing feminism, you must therefore be a garden variety right-wing Christian.
Which is a pretty weird assumption given your occasional disdainful comments about religion (you may gather I’m not very fond of those comments) and the fact that your pseudonym is distinctly Ashkenazi Jewish. I would’ve guessed that you were of Jewish stock if it weren’t for the fact that I myself have a stereotypical Jewish surname but am not Jewish.
Oh, I have a chance to invoke feminist argot: Amber is constricted by the straight-jacket of binary categories; if you’re not an ‘A’ you must be a ‘Z,’ paying no attention to the fact that there are 24 letters betwixt those two.
“You can be country without being cruel.” Lol. I guess she’d never guess from my ‘reactionary’ worldview that I live in the heart of the inner-city. I guess stereotypes can occasionally be wrong, who knew?
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“You have enemies? Good. That means you’ve stood up for something, sometime in your life.”
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You’re the one hating. You live a life so toxic it’s amazing you can get out of bed in the morning.
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Oh Amber. We here at JB don’t delete comments if they are a wee bit criticising. It was stuck in moderation. Trust me, JB is all woman. She is proud of the wonderful successful men and women in her life. I can’t see where you are getting the toxic angle from though? Toxic? How is making bread bowls, looking after a family and being completely polemic about certain issues, toxic? I don’t see the hate you speak of…all the best PPP
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Don’t agree with all your opinions, but you sure throw it out there.
It’s easy to guess how most bloggers will fall on any issue – with you I’m not so sure.
Good one.
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If you cannot see the hatred all around her blog you might be a bit blind. You can enjoy being at home and making bread bowls without being so full of intolerance and hatred. Her views on rape and other woman are astonishingly sexist. I’m frankly surprised she is a woman, if you are not lying, because that means she types an awful lot like a certain author at MRA. You can be country and not be cruel. You can live and let live. Frankly, she’s not a good Christian at all.
Oh and stuck in moderation is still censoring it. 🙂
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Whatever made you think I’m a Christian?
Yeah, no.
Thanks for stopping by, Amber, but remember, this is MY house. Watch your mouth, sweetpea, or out you go!
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Amber, regarding the post that is getting you upset. JB isn’t stating that brutal and violent rape by strangers does not exist.
She is not talking about women who get criminally raped. Those violent crimes are horrendous. What JB is talking about is common sense
and personal responsibility. JB is talking about women not looking out for themselves and each other. That getting wasted, and getting into bed with someone and calling rape the next day is wrong. For all parties involved. I personally know a girl who did this. Calling RAPE onto a man can ruin their lives.
If you’ve not noticed, JUDGY BITCH is not one of those Live and Let live blogs.
A comment being in moderation because one of us is away from the computer may be censoring, but you claimed that we had deleted it because you may have hurt our feelings. WAAAH. It’s probably best to stay away from headlines that are possibly offensive to you. all the best PPP
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Amber’s argument: that’s a man, baby!
Pff
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Yo, JB, Someone has mistaken us for the christianwhosayfuckalot website!
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I saw the title and thought ‘haters’? This blog seems small enough it hasnt attracted haters yet…then in only 7 comments I see hate. Hahahaha Maybe I should go to some feminist blogs and stir up trouble…
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I love how people think they’re in a position to judge some one as being a good “Christian/Muslim/Jew/XYZ.” Isn’t one of the fundamental ideas of all Abrahamic religions that only the Almighty can judge your righteousness or wickedness? Not
It’s almost as funny as the rape issue. Rape is a barbaric act of violence. Feeling guilty (EMBARRASSED) about drunken sex is not rape. Allowing people to just throw that out, or any claims of abuse in order to work a system or cover their shitty judgement is not being a good Christian. (Oh woops.)
By the way, that bread bowl…..its like food porn.
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Oh. Amber’s one of those blessed foolish women who thinks that not being an uber-feminist means you “support rape culture.” I’ve had a few of those hit my blog, too.
Not much to do with them, they’re basically speaking cant rather than English, and are immune to argument.
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As the WW2 airmen said, “You get the most flak when you’re on target”
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I still love you, Judgy Bitch!…..clearly what those boys did was wrong, the girl was ignorant and young. They were all wasted….but five years in prison for fingering a drunk girl who can’t even remember? After she gave someone a hand job? She is severely traumatized by this? There is no comparison between that, and going to prison and being labeled a sex offender for life…
I recall a graduation party,….tripping, stoned and drunken revellers back in the day….
A woman said she liked me alot, stayed with me alone when others left, took off all her clothes…We got into bed naked…..we were gong at it, she passed out………I wanted to go out with her, bu later learnedt she had a boyfriend….next day was sort of weird, she wouldn’t even acknowledge me at all….with the boyfriend….
It kind of hurt my feeling a bit at the time, I liked her alot…later I wondered if this was rape, I guess I just assumed she took off all her clothes and started to have sex with me was ‘consent’…we were equally wasted, I passed out later…….am I a rapist?
That picture in ghe beginning of this blog reminds me of my most recent girlfriend, attitude too! …er, could you please turn towards me more, and put your arm down when flipping me off? Thanks!
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I had NO idea how many enemies I had, until I opined on a tiny, never-read blog I owned about rape.
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I believe her assumption was that since you are obviously an opponent of what we may call garden variety left-wing feminism, you must therefore be a garden variety right-wing Christian.
Which is a pretty weird assumption given your occasional disdainful comments about religion (you may gather I’m not very fond of those comments) and the fact that your pseudonym is distinctly Ashkenazi Jewish. I would’ve guessed that you were of Jewish stock if it weren’t for the fact that I myself have a stereotypical Jewish surname but am not Jewish.
Oh, I have a chance to invoke feminist argot: Amber is constricted by the straight-jacket of binary categories; if you’re not an ‘A’ you must be a ‘Z,’ paying no attention to the fact that there are 24 letters betwixt those two.
“You can be country without being cruel.” Lol. I guess she’d never guess from my ‘reactionary’ worldview that I live in the heart of the inner-city. I guess stereotypes can occasionally be wrong, who knew?
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