This is an interesting blog written by a personal friend of mine who has spent the last 11 years paying child support for a son he seen only a handful of times.
Please follow this blog if you want a detailed story about how corrupt family courts can be, and how one rapacious, cruel woman can ruin the lives of everyone she touches.
She has the baby. Refuses to tell me where and when. Calls me after the fact, saying I have a son and she wants money. Being told by her father about the boyfriend, I advise that I’d love to have a son, but considering the circumstances, I wanted a DNA test. She refused to comply. I had a good relationship with her attorney at the time. He stated that HE couldn’t get her to comply either. This caused us both to wonder if the baby was mine or the boyfriend’s.
My understanding is that, with heavy pressure from the court, she finally participated in a DNA test and the baby (Hunter Lewis Cacioppo) was in fact mine. I immediately began paying a great deal of child support voluntarily (without court action) directly to the attorney and started negotiating a time for me to come see him.
Trish was totally non compliant every step of the way. She fought mediation. She fought and ignored court orders. She lied to counsel and the court about my parenting ability and core competencies, to the point that during a full fledged trial when I presented my evidence her attorney was so embarrassed by her client that she eventually stopped representing her. The lawyer told me that no matter what the judgement was (and it was favorable to me) that, “You will never see your son. She will never let you.”. How true that was.
It’s a heartbreaking story, and one that countless numbers of men have experienced.
This is a crime against men, and a terrible crime against children. A devastating legacy of feminism that women must answer for. Anyone who supports this must answer.
The sooner, the better.
Thinking of you, Joe.
Lots of love,