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Why are there no Big Important Women™ in tech? Uhm, because your ideas suck and you’re all pansy-assed cowards?

3 Feb

 

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What do Mark Zuckerberg, Steve Jobs, Bill Gates and Jack Dorsey all have in common? They’re men. They’re white. They’re heterosexual (AFAIK). They’re smart.

 

None of that counted for shit. Sorry, feminists. Whine your little guts out til the end of the freakin’ world. Being a straight, white male had nothing to do with why those men are famous and rich beyond measure. I’ll let you in on a little secret: there is one reason, and only one reason those men are the giants of the tech world.

 

A brilliant idea.

 

See, that’s the whole point of capitalism, and why it works the way it works. You see a problem (often when others don’t even realize it’s a problem yet) and you solve it in a way that is brilliant, efficient, user-friendly and reasonably easy to manufacture.  You don’t need money to make your idea happen. At least, not your own money. You need venture capital.

 

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Venture capital happens when someone has some extra money lying around they would like to turn into more money. Venture capitalists invest in new ventures in the hopes that the new venture will turn their money into more money. It’s really that simple.

 

Money creates more money when invested wisely.

 

How do you convince venture capitalists to give you money? That’s also pretty easy. Have a great idea and then sell it. Your great idea won’t get anywhere if you don’t know how to sell it. Mumble and stare at the floor and downplay how it works and you are not likely to find anyone throwing bags of cash at you. If you don’t think it’s a truly great idea, why the hell would anyone else?

 

Great idea + knowing how to sell = venture capital.

 

Get a load of this pity party for women in tech, in Newsweek. What Silicon Valley Thinks of Women is a giant sobbing, blathering mess that ignores our two key means of getting venture capital. The women in question have a shitty idea that won’t work, and they are mumbling, stammering simpletons who can’t express themselves. Two strikes and you’re out, ladies.

 

The gist of their idea is that women need to connect with other women in tech so they can help each other out professionally because vagina. Women should not cultivate relationships with other professionals in their areas of expertise because men are gross and might look at their asses. Their genius idea is called Glassbreakers. Oddly enough, venture capitalists are not throwing oodles of cash their way because misogyny and sexism, amirite?

 

Here are just a few reasons why Glassbreakers is a stupid idea that won’t work.

 

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First of all, the answer to sexism is not more sexism. By creating an app that connects humans with vaginas to other humans with vaginas you are leaving out half your potential market. Really well thought out, ladies. Let’s assume that no men will assist colleagues with great ideas if those colleagues have vaginas and then exclude them from women’s networks based on that assumption.

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Secondly, the idea that women are going to genuinely help other women is laughably naïve. Heaven help any woman in tech who is above average pretty, who thinks other women are going to help her. Virtually 100% of women will aggress against a peer they perceive as sexy. Women will not only refuse to help an attractive woman in tech, they will go out of their way to demean and harm her. Women who achieve power over others (#BanBossy!) are hated pretty much by everyone, but by other women in particular. Lady Bosses are often petty, mean-spirited drama queens and women are each other’s own worst enemies. Why would tech be any different? This story in particular makes me laugh: a feminist went to work for a feminist organization and ended up hating those bitches and quitting. Lol. Yeah, Glassbreakers is such a great idea! Let’s connect women professionally so they can actively destroy each other! That should work! Who wants to invest?

 

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Thirdly, by their own admission, the developers are addressing a problem that doesn’t exist: sexual harassment and sexist behaviour. Eileen Carey, one of the devs, “claims she has only rarely experienced sexual harassment or even sexist behavior”, but in the next heartbeat claims “bias and harassment are endemic in her profession.”  So which is it? Rare or endemic? And they wonder why venture capitalists are not chucking money at them?

 

And finally, both developers admit they are pathetic cowards when it comes to selling their ideas. After rambling and mumbling all over the place, one investor had to outright ask Carey if she wanted funding. Way to sell that concept! If women are incapable of the “swagger” and “confidence” of men, how are they going to be capable of mentoring each other? If women habitually understate their accomplishments, how are they going to convey anything the slightest bit useful to one another?

 

Glassbreakers hasn’t attracted funding because venture capitalists hate women. Nonsense. It has failed to attract funding because it’s a crappy idea the developers themselves can’t get behind.  If women in tech want to improve their positions, they need to do two things: grow a set and have better ideas. Easy peasy. Sitting around whining and crying that teh menz are mean, casting about for someone to blame other than themselves, and looking for any excuse to avoid asking the tough questions are the things holding women back. Who wants to bet the majority of these mewling children identify as feminist?  Funny that Marissa Meyer didn’t experience any of these terrible roadblocks, and thinks feminism is a crock of shit, too.

 

Hey women in tech who aren’t really killing it, if you’re looking for someone to blame, try a mirror.

 

And then get back to work.

 

Lots of love,

 

JB

 

 

 

 

Sulky little bitch can’t manage her money, threatens her husband with divorce if he doesn’t give her more. Sulky bitch is clearly also a stupid bitch.

30 Apr

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I love reading advice columns, and Dear Prudence is one of my favorites.  Jesus, that bitch is clueless.  Her advice usually consists of “go to therapy”, and she appears not to realize that most “therapists” are retards who took psych degrees and can’t find any other job.

She’s always good for a laugh, though, and her response to this writer is one of the best I’ve had in a long time:

Q. Married but Financially Separate: My husband and I have been married for five years and have totally separate finances—bank accounts, credit cards, nothing is shared. He makes significantly more money than I do and pays all of the bills with the exception of the mortgage, which I pay. He “gives” me money weekly for groceries and incidentals. Regardless, I am pretty much broke all of the time. We don’t have a joint credit card or bank account and I get really resentful when he spends lots of money on something and I am relegated to the local discount store, a place he wouldn’t consider gracing. He refuses to join our finances or have a joint credit card. This isn’t a partnership. As he would say, what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is yours. Is he on a power trip or paranoid? I know I blew it by not discussing how we would handle our money before getting married but I didn’t and now this is a serious issue for me.

http://www.slate.com/articles/life/dear_prudence/2013/04/dear_prudence_my_daughter_lied_about_being_a_stripper_for_years.html

Let’s take this apart, shall we?

My husband and I have been married for five years and have totally separate finances—bank accounts, credit cards, nothing is shared.

Hmm. I wonder why?  Anyone get the feeling that something is being left out here?  Totally separate finances for five years feels like some sort of reaction, no?  I wonder what cupcake would like to DO with that joint bank account and what she intends to purchase with the shared credit card?

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Oh, let’s just start with the assumption that MEN SUCK and this guy is no different.  He’s a big mean asshole who won’t foot wifey’s bills.

In which case, why did you marry him?

I’m seeing some excellent judgement from cupcake right off the bat.

He makes significantly more money than I do and pays all of the bills with the exception of the mortgage, which I pay.

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Oh boo hoo.  Does he have some actual, real, marketable skills that translate into an income and you don’t?  Let me guess.  Women’s studies major?  Psychology?  Art history?

And he pays all the bills!  What a jerk!  YOU have to pay the mortgage?  Well, that’s bullshit.  Why should you have to pay any bills at all?

I wonder how much the “bills” amount to after the mortgage is paid?

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According to this graph, based on Department of Labor statistics, the average couple spends about $10 000/year on housing.  Out of an annual expenditures budget of just under $50 000.  So cupcake, who has to pay the mortgage, is likely spending about $10 000 per year, leaving her husband, who pays all the other bills, on the hook for $40 000 a year.

http://www.thesimpledollar.com/2010/01/04/how-the-average-american-family-spends-their-income-and-how-to-trim-it/

That’s so mean!  He pays, on average, FOUR TIMES MORE for all the bills, and this bitch is whining?

He “gives” me money weekly for groceries and incidentals. Regardless, I am pretty much broke all of the time.

 

So basically, she doesn’t earn very much money, has to pay a quarter of their expenses, he gives her money ON TOP of that, and she’s still broke most of the time.

Sounds like a really responsible sort of person, no?  Gosh, this is a perplexing situation indeed.  Why on earth doesn’t he want to give her access to his bank account?

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We don’t have a joint credit card or bank account and I get really resentful when he spends lots of money on something and I am relegated to the local discount store, a place he wouldn’t consider gracing.

Awww.  You get wesentful?  You don’t wike him spending money on himself?  You have to go to the discount store?

Hey, I have an idea!  Get a better job!  Or a second job.  Or, you know, shut the fuck up.

He refuses to join our finances or have a joint credit card. This isn’t a partnership. As he would say, what’s mine is mine and what’s yours is yours. Is he on a power trip or paranoid?

 

Let’s see.  By your own admission, you are resentful of your husband, you don’t earn much money, you can’t manage the little money you DO earn PLUS what he gives you on top of that and you are broke most of the time.

Hmm.  Is he on a power trip or paranoid?  I’m not sure how you are defining those terms, but if you mean “is he responding rationally and prudently to an immature sulky little bitch of a wife who can’t even manage her allowance”, then yes to both!

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I know I blew it by not discussing how we would handle our money before getting married but I didn’t and now this is a serious issue for me.

You know what, sweetpea?  I’m thinking he’s having the exact same thoughts.  He blew it by marrying you, and he doesn’t intend to blow it any further by giving you carte blanche access to the family resources.

So what is Prudie’s advice?

MAKE HIM PAY FOR MARRIAGE COUNSELING!

And if that doesn’t work, get a divorce.

A: Since you don’t mention other more pleasant aspects of life that you do share, I’m wondering if there is any part of your union that does feel like a partnership. (I hope your weekly stipend isn’t for services rendered.) If not, what are you doing in it? There is something you two need to do together and for which your husband should pay: marriage counseling. Tell him that you thought you married the handsome prince, but you feel like Cinderella before the ball. Explain that you have become so resentful of your disparate financial conditions that your marriage is at stake. Do keep in mind that since you are chronically broke, if you two do split, you’re going to have to learn to live within your own means.

At least Prudie has the good sense to remind Cupcake that she will be paying all her own bills should she decide to go that route.  Well, depending on whether or she can secure alimony payments, that is.

http://divorcesupport.about.com/od/financialissues/a/The-Great-Alimony-Myth.htm

Odds are pretty good she’ll get a few years worth of access to that bank account, which just might be enough time to line up the proper Prince Charming who will grasp that she is not Cinderella BEFORE the ball, she is Cinderella AFTER the ball.

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Having read this column, I am now even more grateful that I have a husband who shares not just his life with me, but his money, too.

True story:  Once NurseRatchet was over for a visit and Mr. JB came home and took my wallet out of my purse, looked over all the receipts, took them, counted the cash I had and then put my wallet back in my purse.

After he left, Ratchet threw a fit!  How dare he?  He checks your purchases?  Just goes in your purse whenever he wants?  Counts your money?  Do you have to grovel for that money?  Do you have no privacy at all?

Ratchet is kind of a bitch.  I don’t really see her anymore, but that’s another story.  The point here is how she assumed that our finances were something deeply personal and separate.  They’re not.  Mr. JB checks my wallet pretty much every day because he files all the receipts in the event that I need to exchange or return something.  If it was up to me, I would never find a receipt ever.  I can barely find my keys, never mind a receipt for the hairdryer I bought six weeks ago.  He also likes me to have a certain amount of cash in my wallet, in case I want coffee or need to buy some small thing.  I never check to see if I have money before I go somewhere, because I KNOW that I do.

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I have access to our bank account, but I never touch it.  If I’m not going to bother learning how our budget works (and I’m not), then I figure I have no business messing with it.  I use my Visa or the cash in my wallet for whatever I want or need to buy. Anything bigger than $40, I run by Mr. JB first.  I’m not asking for permission, I’m asking if that purchase will mess with his budget.  It works very well for us, because I’m not a big shopper and I don’t spend a lot of money (except for the bookstore – I can be pretty deadly in the bookstore).

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And once I go back to work, none of this will change.   I will have whatever money I earn deposited into our joint account, which I will then proceed to ignore completely and I’ll keep using my Visa and trusting that my wallet is filled with cash.

http://judgybitch.com/2013/02/16/schrodingers-slut-or-why-it-matters-what-you-wear/

It works because I’m actually a grown-up with some concept of how money and budgets work.  We never carry credit card debt and I would consider it a huge personal failure to ever blow our family budget to the point that was necessary.  It’s just not going to happen.

What happens when you marry someone like cupcake who can’t manage her allowance and is perpetually broke?

You keep your accounts separate.  Seems pretty reasonable to me.  If cupcake wants to be Cinderella AFTER the ball, she can get her ass out of that pumpkin and go earn some money.  Prince Charming is hardly likely to foot the bill for some resentful little bitch who thinks the solution to her problems is the Prince’s cash and a joint credit card.

You know, I just realized something.  I never put my wallet in the same place twice.  Right now I have no idea where it is.  That means Mr.JB has to go hunting for it every day to make sure I have money.

That must be really fucking annoying.

http://judgybitch.com/2013/04/26/what-do-women-want-from-marriage-oh-everything-is-that-so-much-to-ask/

I’ll have to work on that.

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Baby steps!

Lots of love,

JB

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