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Want more BANG for your BURGER?

20 Nov

Check out what PPP  (Princess Pixie Pointless) has to add to JB’s phenominal anti-fatty-fat rant, here, MEEE!

Raising daughters in a feminist world

5 Nov

Following up on my post about raising sons, here are my steps for raising daughters in a feminist world.

GET MARRIED AND STAY MARRIED. Little girls need the presence of their father as much as little boys do. Daddy is a little girl’s first love and he SHOULD be  http://wp.me/p2OBkr-3G    Little girls who grow up with positive, affirmative and consistent attention from a loving, ever-present man are immunized against slut culture, which is really just a cry for male recognition and validation. Sluts, especially the teenage ones, aren’t sluts because they like it. They’re sluts because they will do ANYTHING to get attention from a male, and if a blow job is the price, then they’ll pay it. The tragedy is that what sad little sluts REALLY want is love, and they don’t quite understand that the attention they get from men isn’t love and very likely never will be. The more guys they have sex with, the less likely it is that ANY man will want to have a relationship with them.

A girl who grows up with a Daddy doesn’t have a hole in heart she needs to fill. She will be far less likely to join the slut parade despite the pressures feminist culture will put on her, telling her that being a slut is really about empowerment and just a really fun thing to do.

LET HER BE A PRINCESS. Rare is the little girl who doesn’t love a tiara and a sparkly dress. Being a Princess is a way of practicing benevolent care. It’s a way of placing the welfare of others over your own. and it places the value of marriage and love at the center of the narrative. The Disney Princesses, so reviled by feminists but beloved by little girls everywhere are role models that little girls adore emulating. Cinderella rescuing the mice and finding her Prince. Snow White taking care of the dwarfs and finding her Prince. Jasmine giving apples to the the street urchins and finding her Prince.

There is no harm at all in nurturing the loving, caring beautiful Princess in your little girl’s heart. The Princess stage usually starts at three years of age and ends around six when most little girls seem to understand that they don’t have to be royalty to be kind and caring and lovely.

There is another kind of Princess narrative that is much more dangerous, and that starts AFTER the Disney Princess stage. Young girls who think they really ARE Princesses, better than everyone else by virtue of having been born, deserving of special treatment, callous and selfish. A 12 year old Princess is probably well on her way to narcissism and self-delusion, and that kind of Princess needs to be shut down.

But four year olds in elbow gloves and glass slipper are delightful. True Princesses, interested in the welfare of others, and that’s a lovely thing to encourage. The cat may not agree.
RESPECT HER BODY. It’s HER hair!  Let her wear it the way she wants. When PinkyPinkyPie was a little girl, she HATED having her hair washed and brushed and ponytailed. So we kept it short. A little bob we trimmed frequently and never combed. She has never, ever sat and cried while tangles were brushed out of her hair.  When PinkyPinkyPie was five, she decided on her own to grow her hair. And hasn’t cut it since. It cascades to her waist in a sheet of shimmering blonde and she loves it because she CHOSE it.

Pinky’s little sister MissBossyPants has gorgeous blonde curls, which she HATES having washed or brushed. So she sports a little pixie cut and will until she decides otherwise.

Forcing little girls to wear hair they don’t like is setting them up to be controlled. By friends, by lovers, by partners, by ideologies. It’s teaching them their own personal thoughts on something as personal as THEIR OWN HAIR don’t matter. That’s stupid. So leave her hair alone, mom. It’s HERS, not yours. If you want long hair, grow your own.

And no punching holes through any part of her body, either. When she WANTS her ears pierced, she’ll let you know.

RESPECT HER MIND. Little girls love dolls, kittens, cupcakes, sparkly jewelry, tea sets and bunny rabbits. They generally DON’T like cars, knives, guns, worms, frogs or slimey things. A little girl’s mind is primed to be caring, nurturing, loving, protective and cooperative. The standard feminist blah blah blah is that these things are CULTURAL. Girls are brainwashed into evoking all the qualities that allow them to care for helpless offspring for an extended period of time, because, you know, THERE IS NO EVOLUTIONARY BASIS FOR THAT PARTICULAR PSYCHOLOGY.

Grr.

Let little girls BE little girls. Don’t denigrate them for loving femininity and care-giving. Don’t force them into soccer and sneer at their distaste for being dirty. You are essentially telling them that their mothering instincts are wrong, although I suppose that will come in handy when grow up, have their own children that they drop off at the day orphanage and then go back to their bullshit jobs doing pretty much nothing so they can buy a bunch of crap they don’t need.

Little girls are natural mothers. Don’t destroy that instinct.

SHOWER HER WITH KISSES.   Little girls are generally quite naturally cuddly and affectionate but that doesn’t mean you should wait for her to come to you when she needs love and a hug. You are modeling for her what a loving  mother SHOULD be, so BE that mother. Works better if you are actually THERE for her and not texting her from your cubicle.

SHOW HER HOW TO MAKE A HOUSE A HOME

Let your little girl grow up in a home filled with friends and family and love and laughter. Let her see YOU do the work it takes to make your home loving and welcoming. Throw out your Martha Stewart magazines (or at least keep them hidden, your own porn stash) in your bedroom.

Homes aren’t about ceramics and flower arrangements and hand printed napkins. Those things are about competing with other women and marking your status and have NOTHING to do with the comfort of the people in your home. They’re ego masturbation and go ahead and do that with one room in the house if it really matters to you, but the living room should be where EVERYONE can feel welcome and comfortable.

Show her the meaning of hospitality and graciousness and let her know men are not only welcome, they are fundamental to making a house a home. Protect her from the idea that a house with a woman and several children fathered by different men, none of whom are around, is just another kind of “family”. It’s not. Nothing replaces a home with a loving set of married parents at the center of it.

LET HER BE DIFFERENT

Not all little girls are about glitter nail polish and unicorns and that’s just fine. PinkyPinkyPie’s close friend GingerGirl is a full on tomboy. Trucks, guns, dirty jeans (she wants a pet wolf!) and never met a mud puddle she didn’t love. That’s beautiful, because GingerGirl isn’t acting out her mother’s fantasy of genderless  utopia, she’s just being herself. Letting girls be who they are will result in most girls being loving mothers and wives. As it is, most girls WILL grow up to be mothers, but feminism has succeeded in telling them that the loving and wife part don’t matter.

And that’s a tragedy. Show your little girl that being a WIFE and loving your children and family more than yourself is not only natural, it’s wonderful!

And when she gets to be a teenager and starts spending a lot of time alone in her room, give her a few books to read. You probably know some good ones.

Lots of love,

JB

Does your husband/boyfriend watch porn? Good. It means he’s a healthy male with a normal sexual appetite and that is not yours to control. Get over yourself

3 Nov

I’m going to post this link, but I strongly encourage you NOT to click through if you have a full stomach, because it’s pretty sickening stuff.  Kasey Edwards, a writer and columnist at Daily Life has some advice for parents on how to raise “feminist sons”, which basically means teaching them to be submissive and beating every ounce of boy out of them.  I feel sorry for the young man growing up with her, and hope his rebellion is smashingly complete with a Harley-Davidson motorcycle, multiple tattoos and a stripper girlfriend.

 

http://www.dailylife.com.au/life-and-love/raising-sons-that-respect-women-20121008-278a6.html

 

While there is a lot to tackle in this article, I’m just going to address her first “step” in the destruction of her son’s masculine spirit.

 

  1. Watching http://www.sexy-sluts-horny-pussy-make-me-your-whore-bitch.com is not sex education

 

Okay, first of all, way to completely misunderstand what porn is and why it matters to men and young men discovering their sexuality.  Men are visual creatures.  Porn translates their most basic desires into visual images.  An average man sees a beautiful woman and wants to fuck her.  He imagines her being completely willing and compliant and his desire is at the center of their “encounter”.

 

 

In other words IT’S FANTASY!

 

Kind of like the representations of men in oh, ROMANCE NOVELS, are fantasies.  Caricatures of real men and real relationships based on women’s desire, with only the woman’s own pleasure under consideration.  Women are much more stimulated by written words than visual images, but let’s be clear:  there most certainly IS porn for women and it’s called a romance novel.

 

Women can consume their porn anywhere.  There is no shame attached to it.  Look around and you will see women reading their lusty, explicit novels on the subway, at cafes, at the playground, and it probably wouldn’t raise any eyebrows to pack a romance novel to the church picnic.  Fifty Shades of Grey is an intensely sado-masochistic novel that involves beating the crap out of the heroine, which she LOVES, and it is a crazy bestseller!

 

 

Does this mean women want to be tied up and beaten?  Hardly.  It means they like FANTASIZING about being tied up and beaten.  Maybe some will give velvet handcuffs and a riding crop a whirl, but since women are in fact intelligent and perceptive HUMAN BEINGS, they understand the fucking difference between fantasy and reality.

 

Guess what?  So do men.  Start with the assumption that men are ALSO intelligent and perceptive HUMAN BEINGS, and then move on to the rational conclusion that WATCHING a hot chick blow the pizza guy until he comes on her face is NOT MATERIALLY DIFFERENT than READING about it.

 

Here’s the thing:  women assume they have the absolute right to control men’s sexuality.  Women think they are allowed to dictate how, where, when and under what circumstances men’s sexuality is expressed, all the while indulging in their own extra curricular fantasies at the local bookshop.

 

Bullshit.  Men watching porn is no different than women reading romance novels.  Expressing disgust at porn is the same thing as expressing disgust at men’s sexuality.  Edwards is teaching her son to be ashamed of his perfectly natural desires, and to accept in the future that a woman will control his sexuality, all the while assuming he is too stupid to comprehend the difference between a real relationship with a real human being and the fantasy of a purely sexual relationship he watches on the internet.

 

You can just feel the love and respect she has for her son, can’t you?  How much you want to bet that she has no objection to her daughter reading the Princess Diaries and isn’t sneaking onto her daughter’s computer to check out what books she’s been browsing at Amazon.com.

 

 

Objections to porn are fundamentally objections to men.  Men’s sexuality is different from women’s, to be certain.  That doesn’t make it bad or shameful or immoral. This is about control:  women wanting to control men and their sexuality.  And it isn’t going to work.  At least, I hope not.  Men’s sexuality is half of the basic energy that creates the world.  The other half is women’s sexuality, of course.  Together, we have created the universe.

 

And I kind of like it.  Have to get off the computer now.  Mr. JudgyBitch wants to check out the new videos at HornySluts.com.  Now where did I put my book?

 

 

Happy watching, gents, and happy reading, ladies!

 

Lots of love,

 

JB

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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